This blog started with great anticipation and recorded the entire trip — now it’s time to wrap it up. When Barbara Sansone of Spirit of India sent the final tour package, she opened her cover letter with “Wow! What a fantastic journey lies ahead for you!” I can say without hesitation that she was right. We built up our expectations to a level that would be hard to fulfill and those expectations were met. That’s not to say there were no challenges. But we had gone into this expecting challenges and determined to roll with the punches. The biggest challenge was that the itinerary was so full that the guides had to push to fit it all in. That meant many early mornings and long car rides. There are a few things I might consider changing. The day at Periyar probably could have been better spent. There is little wildlife to see and that so far off that it was a dot on the horizon. But the itinerary said not to expect a safari.
It would be hard for us to say that traveling in India is difficult because the tour made it so easy. It was a pleasure to not worry about how to get to the airport or where it’s safe to eat. We could focus on sight seeing knowing that our guides would get us to where we had to be, when we had to be there. A glance at our guide let us know if it was safe to eat the salad at this restaurant or whether an approaching vendor should be avoided. I always felt safe — even walking in crowded city streets. The guides encouraged us to try things, taking upon themselves to pay the tip or buy the tickets. There were a few exceptions like evening shows.
If you’re expecting things to be cheap in India you have to be careful how you shop. The first night in Delhi I paid $30 for two tall beers and two bottles of water at the hotel restaurant. But when we went to breakfast at a local cafe in Cochin, we paid a couple dollars for three of us. Granted it wasn’t our usual breakfast, but we had enough to eat with tea and coffee. We felt a little like sheep being led to slaughter when the guides took us to shops. In fact a merchant at the bazaar in Udaipur told us to never go to a shop with our guide because they got commissions. They didn’t pressured us to buy, but I think their involvement had a negative impact on the prices we paid. It was always couched as an educational experience to see how rugs or silk are woven or how petra dura is made, but it always ended up in a showroom.
The tour representatives in Delhi were very responsive to our needs, going out of their way to ensure we had a good experience. When I pointed out that one excursion on our itinerary had been dropped, it was immediately restored. Our guide said that she was told, “we want to add surprises to the tour, never drop what was promised.”
I had proposed at the beginning that we could probably take this trip in our eighties. I now don’t think that’s the case. It was a bit too demanding. But after all, this was not a vacation, but an adventure.